Abused women

 i know whoever reads this will more than likely disagree with me but thats half of the fun. i dont see it as most others do. Dont get me wrong i do not advocate domestic violence however i feel that if a person has been abused once they need to leave the situation then and there, not five times later.

Heres the thing, i am not talking out my ass on this. my mother was and remains in a very abusive marriage, hes tried to break chairs over her, given her black eyes and even backed me into walls a few times. i found a place where she could live with me, took her in and supported her in every way, even financially and she never left that asshole. To this day she lives with him in my old house with my children and im sure its still going on. Go ahead and rip me apart for letting my kids be in that situation. i dare anyone to tell me im fucked up. When i left that house he didnt live there and by the time i found out i had given her the kids legally and i had no grounds to stand on to stop any of it.

  i see all of these "against domestic violence groups" and want to throw up. Wake up females, we are in the year 2012 and we have rights. If you cannot leave then find a way, make a call but there is no excuse for staying. Its the bad Stockholm syndrome that keeps you there and its your own fault. Learn what shut the fuck up means, grow a backbone and use it!!! Dont let it keep happening. Each woman or even man in an abusive situation that lets it keep happening to them becomes the guilty party.

  Society has grown to where it babies everyone, no one claims fault to anything these days and it makes me sick. Do i feel bad for the innocent children in these situations? Hell yes i do, they do not cause this to happen, it is not their fault whatsoever but the parents need to grow up and see what they are doing and causing and stop their kiddie ways.

  So the next time im asked to give to a womans shelter will i give..um.. NO plain and simple because its the people running the shelters that contribute to the issue as well. They make those places so unpleasant that no abused person wants to go there so they suffer through the abuse.