Sex and emotions.

Sex and emotions.

Do they fit together? Some say no others say yes. Heres my point of view as you all know I love to give.

For me its always been both together. I cant have sex with someone and not have emotions involved, I don’t sleep around and I have no idea how people do that. I mean whats up with meeting someone in a bar and taking them home for a one night stand?? Ive never done that and I never will.

I can be a very emotional person, I kind of like that about me. I care about others and usually put them before myself and that even extends to the bedroom.  Recently I found closure that has let me open my heart back up again and its scary for me but its also a huge relief. I can now move on and let myself fall again, and I think I am.

Some of the guys ive talked to say that they are separate and that sex is just sex and that no emotions need be involved…I don’t buy that but im also the one who has never had a one night stand or had a friend with benefits merely for the sake of having someone around for sex. Maybe this is TMI but if I want sex or have an urge im no saint and know how to deal with it myself without a man around.   

I think females are more emotional and that we need the connection during sex with the emotions and all of that good gushy stuff. Nothing wrong with that if it’s what makes us tick. I know im not ashamed of it and  I don’t ever see me changing my ways this late in life.

So im curious, what are your thoughts on this topic??? Please chime in im curious.