I was given an interesting topic today by a friend...casual sex. Something i dont do and have a good opinion of.
ive never met someone and just had casual sex. i find it meaningless and degrading. Now im not saying ive never stepped backwards and slept with an ex after a break up but i also thought it would end in us getting back together not like it usually does in me still being alone.
i think if i had to chose between casual sex or going without i will go without hands down each time.
i hear of people going to clubs, bars and parties just to hook up for sex and so many times it ends in STDs pregnancy or broken hearts. i just cant do that. i was raped when i was 20 and thats why i have a daughter and i cant imagine with how guilty i already feel if i had met him at a bar or something, instead he was supposedly a friend of a friends cousin who was too drunk to drive and i was helping the fucker get home safely. i should have let him walk, and if ever faced with that decision again the man will walk.
As for the whole man vs. woman thing on casual sex i really think its equal and that both sexes do the same things looking for the same results except maybe the girls are looking for a relationship a bit more. That is those who arent already married and having affairs.
i will continue to stick it out and wait around for the right one and enjoy life on my own until what i want is found. No casual sex for this chic.
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